
Today would have been my dad’s 93rd birthday. I’m bothered that I can’t remember how we celebrated his 89th birthday–his last. I think I brought him some favorite food for dinner and some favorite dessert, but I can’t be sure. That last year he didn’t leave the house . . . at all. Not even to get the mail. He didn’t eat much anymore, but still seemed to like McDonald’s and lemon meringue pie . . . and a martini. Was that what I brought? Did I make him a martini?

